Another astonishing admission: I enjoy having control. I am a perfectionist and having control means that things get done my way, in my time. Since I can't control other peoples' inept lack of perfectionism (!), the least I can do is take control and make sure that everything is done "right".

Thankfully, I know that God loves my kids more than I could ever begin to and His plan, even though it will include mistakes of their own making along the way, is truly best. We have a book that I have referred to many times in the past ten years or so since I got it. It's called "Praying the Bible for Your Children" by David and Heather Kopp, and I highly recommend it. In light of my musings the past couple days, this particular prayer is very meaningful.
Heavenly Father,
How great and mysterious are your ways! You ask us to trust you with that which we love most. How did Moses' mother do it? How did she let her baby go (Exodus 2:2-3), knowing so many things could go wrong?
The dangers my children face today are very different, Lord, and yet just as real. Drugs, strangers, accidents, gangs--even babysitters and friends!

Thank you that I can surrender my children and place them in the dangerous "river" of life, knowing that You will be watching over them, not from far off but from very nearby.
Amen
Maybe, just maybe, one of the best gifts I can give my kids is realizing that they are KIDS and they aren't and never will be perfect. Once again, it's all about me relinquishing control and trusting God--with everything--but most importantly my most precious possessions.
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You said it perfectly - I'm right there with you too - now we need a perfectionists-anonymous club too!! Yet another book I need to read!! And I'm being so convicted by the one I'm in the middle of right now - UGH!! Thanks for the great post - hey, where'd the scrapbook page come from?? I love it!
Ouch! This hurts: "Another astonishing admission: I enjoy having control. I am a perfectionist and having control means that things get done my way, in my time. Since I can't control other peoples' inept lack of perfectionism (!), the least I can do is take control and make sure that everything is done "right".
In your eyes, I have an "inept lack of perfectionism" and that is what alienated our friendship. I am still stinging from that one...
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